Lilith, I ended up grounding her today. She went to a friend's house after school to help him with his homework, like she usually does. I told her that she needed to be home by 6:15pm. I tested her a little after 6pm and got no response. 6:30 rolled around and she was STILL not home. Needless to say, I was pissed. After several phone calls to her phone went unanswered, the other kids and I left to go pick her up. I don't think that I have EVER been this pissed at her before now!